To my enormous amusement, on that johari window thing, the overwhelming majority have picked ‘confident’ as my most defining trait. Interestingly, it’s not one I picked myself (I went with self-assertive). However, I apparently have no facade whatsoever: none of the words I picked to define myself were words nobody else thought applied. I think that’s funny, too. :)
(Possibly I am very easily amused.)
Oh, hell, the bread.
Yeah, after a half dozen or so responses, my facade was history.
I am an open book.
-R